Territory Examples

One part of nonverbal communication that we study is territories. There are three kinds of territories: Primary (where it really IS yours), Secondary (where it is temporarily assigned to you), and Public (where it isn't really anyone's, but it feels like yours). This past week I came across three examples of public territories in my life.

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The first examples was on Saturday.  This past Saturday, the KM Speech team competed at Chatfield's high school. Although I have never attended school there as a student, I kind of feel like this is "my" meet. You see, my husband and my best friend both attended high school there (coincidence only), so I went to many events at that particular school.  Because of that connection, and the many fond memories I have in that building (speech meets, proms, dances, plays, concerts, games..), I feel like I'm going home.

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My second example is from kickboxing class.  I have a certain spot in the room that I always like to be for my "place" in class.  This is another example of public, because although I pay to go to Northgate, I do not pay for this particular spot in class. I really like to be in the front row on the far left facing the instructor.  I have no idea why, but that's where I like to be.  There's another woman who sometimes gets there a few minutes before me. If she beats me to class, she takes "my" spot.  Since I'm not in "my" spot, I feel a little off for the first few minutes of class or so. It's silly, but it's true, and it makes for a great example of territory.

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Here's my third example.  Last night my husband and I were talking about how grateful for the warmer weather, so we can start running outside more. He was especially grateful since he is training for his next marathon and has some long runs in the near future.  While we were talking, we kept referring to the fact that we hoped "our" trial was cleared off and not too puddle-ridden. We both love running on Cascade Trail since it is along water and near our home.  Neither of us have any ownership to the trail, it's public property, but we both feel like it is ours because we run on it so often, and it is really close to home. This is another great example of public territory.